What? Thursday 22 August 2013
Sometimes in your life, it really makes you wonder whether you are good enough for anyone else. There are insecurities; There will be promises.Yet you always ask yourself: Are they doing this for a motive? For a purpose? Or simply because they are kind and wanted all that you wanted?
Are you the bad guy then? Perhaps not. Life is but a struggle, bitter and hard. Suspicions raised, inevitably. Motives live, rather timidly.
In the society now, you always always ask, "Are they true?" But, being too trusting was another problem for another time.
People would not know what you think, if you do not say. Do not expect people to know. Do not think that you are always right even though your words might have said differently. It's human nature to lie and not be true to yourself. After all, we perceive only 30% of what we see and 70% of what we think we see.
Never refer a true friend's intention as "something that they wanted to put me down with". The method they said it might not be what you have liked but they know exactly what will hurt you and what will be the key things that will make you listen as well. Thinking that "i already their advice from the start, useless talk" but truly was it useless?
Never think that someone treats you like a second choice. Perhaps i can say that for certain matters, like BT would be my first choice for some things but for some, others are the first choice. Thinking and wanting to be the first choice always, just because you are good friend or so, a true friend, is simply just despicable and wrong. You might have great advice on things, therefore, you are the first choice. Yet, for some, you are nothing and worth nothing but just a listener, so why should others tell you first? After all, crudely, you are useless in the matter. If people chose to actually tell you about it, be grateful because you are nothing but a listener.
Always being there is not just asking " are you alright?" on twitter or "hey, you ok?" face to face. Vis-a-vis, those that are not always there. Always there might be knowing youre down and says a joke to cheer up your day. Always there means switching on the phone for you through the night just for that one emergency call. Always there meant sharing your emotions and understands you so well that they wards off all others that means harm for you.
Just Ranting.
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One nose unblocked, other nose blocked. What is this life, people?
Dedication to Dion:
Two hunters are out in the woods when one of them collapses. He doesn't seem to be breathing and his eyes are glazed. The other guy whips out his phone and calls the emergency services. He gasps, "My friend is dead! What can I do?" The operator says "Calm down. I can help. First, let's make sure he's dead." There is a silence, then a gun shot is heard. Back on the phone, the guy says "OK, now what?"
"What kind of murderer has moral fiber?" — "A cereal killer."
I needed a password eight characters long so I picked Snow White and the Seven Dwarves.
For Bel:
To Brax:
To BT:
